Despite my initial discomfort with the term, 'fiance', I now find myself dropping that F bomb pretty much everywhere.
I noticed the other day on the set of a television pilot, that anyone who spoke to me heard the 'f' word about three to four times. At one point, I realized just how much I was saying it and felt like an idiot. Like the teenage girl who has her first boyfriend and makes sure to mention him to anyone who will listen (yes, that was me as well). I remember once a girl saying to me: I get it. You have a boyfriend.
It must be like that now. The world gets it Sarah. I am engaged.
Besides holding my left had at awkward angles and caressing my face at every opportunity, I am now beginning conversations like this: "My fiance and I love cross-country skiing! I'll have a non-fat Hazelnut Latte please" or "My fiance once had a pet turtle. Robson is five blocks that way."
It's pretty ridiculous.
I'm just so . . . . what's the word? Oh right. Happy. And I intend to suck every ounce of bridal attention I can get in this next year and a half. I only get to say 'fiance' for a brief amount of time in the grand scheme of things, so I am going to make sure I am sick of the word when it's time to move on to husband. Oh god, husband. That sounds so . . . . non-bridal.
Herring run
Whalebone beach has been a scene of feeding frenzy today as shoals of herring attracted thousands of seabirds, dozens of bald eagles and countless marine mammals to feed upon both the roe and the herring themselves.
Low tide revealed seaweed caked in herring roe - providing a veritable feast for the thousands of gulls that have been following this week's herring run.
Among the gulls came the bald eagles - sometimes twenty or more could be seen perched on distant rocks. A solitary sea otter sat patiently on the rocks for the herring to approach, then slipped silently into the water after its prey.
And then came the Stellar Sea Lions - dozens of them could be seen offshore among the seals, with a handful swimming close to shore where the waters were almost white with the roe.
Mostly the sealion swam and dived alone, but this playful pair clearly had the same unsuspecting fish in their sights.
And all the time their barking echoed across the beach.
And all the time their barking echoed across the beach.
Inquisitive seals are no strangers to Whalebone, but the stellar is normally to be found in the waters off Entrance Island - and while their calls can be heard around Sandwell Bay and Whalebone, it is rare for them to be seen in any number this close to Whalebone beach.
Back to the island
It's eight weeks since I left Gabriola to return to the UK. The snows of December and January had gone by the time we arrived back, leaving a bitter coldness that has made it impractical to get out and repair the flat roof over our garage. "Not to be used at temperatures below 10 degrees" said the instructions on the roofing adhesive. So, the garage remained unrepaired and the rain continued to soak through. A job for next time I think.
After installing a brand new kitchen in our island home, it was inevitable that there would be a call for improvements in the kitchen back in England. 10 years ago we'd installed woodgrain-effect cabinets that were starting to look their age (so I was told) and it was time for a new look. Over the past few weeks there have been cabinet doors everywhere waiting for paint to dry - and in the last couple of days some semblence of normality has returned.
So I am now tasked with returning to the island to start the next stage of renovation. I predict regular visits to Arbutus Building Supplies (what would we do without them?) and a return to construction site living for the next two months. All closely supervised from afar thanks to the wonders of the internet.
At least I'm not flying with British Airways.......
After installing a brand new kitchen in our island home, it was inevitable that there would be a call for improvements in the kitchen back in England. 10 years ago we'd installed woodgrain-effect cabinets that were starting to look their age (so I was told) and it was time for a new look. Over the past few weeks there have been cabinet doors everywhere waiting for paint to dry - and in the last couple of days some semblence of normality has returned.
So I am now tasked with returning to the island to start the next stage of renovation. I predict regular visits to Arbutus Building Supplies (what would we do without them?) and a return to construction site living for the next two months. All closely supervised from afar thanks to the wonders of the internet.
At least I'm not flying with British Airways.......
All in a dog's day
We've had a couple of exciting days. And by 'we' I mean Mr. Mop, Brooklyn and myself. And by 'exciting' I mean we've had a slightly less boring routine.
Firstly, Mr. Mop had a bath. I realize that to some, or many, this may not seem exciting. But it is. Because it was a fancy bath at the groomers. We went for a walk at Lighthouse Park the day before to get him all good and dirty for the big day. It is pretty big. He always has mixed emotions. Elation from being alone with me, happiness for the man who gives him a biscuit before entering the shop, fear when he realizes where he is being dragged, horror at my leaving him for three hours, joy at me coming to get him, and satisfaction in chewing the dried bull penis he gets as a treat.
Very big day.
He went in looking like a scraggle Mop and came out looking like Mr. Poufter
Secondly, Brooklyn was put on a diet. That's right. My little 9-lb yorkie is now 10 lbs. Which is like 20 pounds to us. I have always defended his 'softness', denying he is fat, but rather poufy. It took a good and honest friend for me to see the truth. When she said, 'wow, Brooklyn is really fat. Look at his pin head' - kind words coming from a big heart, I knew it was true. I got low-fat food, he is allowed no more treats (read this MOM), and extra running time for him. Poor little muppet, he stared at my ice cream today like it was eternal bliss. He stares at his vomit the same way though, so I'm not sure what it means.
Thirdly, both boys enjoyed an inappropriate hump fest at the dog park. Last night, the boys ran around with three griffin terriers (they are really cute - they sort of resemble ancient Chinese men). Mop really took a shining to the female, and after some courting, proceeded to mount her. Well, I kept pulling him off, but she really didn't seem to mind.
Then Brooklyn wanted part of the action and joined in. By humping her head. I broke them apart.
Not seconds later, Mop was at it again. As he was happily humping terrier one, terrier two mounted Mr. Mop. Who was mounted by Brooklyn. That's right: four dogs in what seemed like a humpalooza at the dog park. I was laughing so hard that I couldn't really catch them (as they were running and humping) so the act went on for far too long.
Terrier three ate mud. Good choice terrier three.
Needless to say, both of my boys had to leave the park at that point and fell into a deep and happy sleep.
And fourthly (see I told you exciting!), Mop and Brooklyn spent time at a new park this morning with a husky named Tundra. A virgo should not own a white dog. Mr. Mop was immediately covered in mud, from wrestling with Tundra. I kept chasing him yelling 'stay out of the mud! stay out of the mud!'. The other dog owner looked at me like I was nuts. Whatever. He would do the same thing if he saw my groomer's bill.
The part that was exciting about this walk was the eagle that flew over our heads, by only a few metres, and landed in its nest. Panic much? All I could think of was that scene from 'The Proposal'. In case you haven't seen it, a puppy gets carried away by an eagle (don't worry, Sandra Bullock saves it). I also thought of that news report I heard when they cleared some nests from Kits beach and found them full of dog collars.
So now not only was I telling my one dog to stay out of the mud, but I was chasing my little dog for fear he would be whisked away for eagle breakfast. He thought this was a game, so ran away barking his horrible Yorkie bark. Drawing attention to his yummy fat self. I told him that this was very serious and that he had to listen to me. He pooped.
But this gave me time to catch him and make noises at the eagle to deter him from his next meal.
Tundra's owner definitely got his money's worth this morning.
Anyways, we are home safe. Fat, fluffy and safe. So much excitement that they are both lying flat on their backs, four legs in the air, snoring happily together.
Firstly, Mr. Mop had a bath. I realize that to some, or many, this may not seem exciting. But it is. Because it was a fancy bath at the groomers. We went for a walk at Lighthouse Park the day before to get him all good and dirty for the big day. It is pretty big. He always has mixed emotions. Elation from being alone with me, happiness for the man who gives him a biscuit before entering the shop, fear when he realizes where he is being dragged, horror at my leaving him for three hours, joy at me coming to get him, and satisfaction in chewing the dried bull penis he gets as a treat.
Very big day.
He went in looking like a scraggle Mop and came out looking like Mr. Poufter
Before
After
Secondly, Brooklyn was put on a diet. That's right. My little 9-lb yorkie is now 10 lbs. Which is like 20 pounds to us. I have always defended his 'softness', denying he is fat, but rather poufy. It took a good and honest friend for me to see the truth. When she said, 'wow, Brooklyn is really fat. Look at his pin head' - kind words coming from a big heart, I knew it was true. I got low-fat food, he is allowed no more treats (read this MOM), and extra running time for him. Poor little muppet, he stared at my ice cream today like it was eternal bliss. He stares at his vomit the same way though, so I'm not sure what it means.
Thirdly, both boys enjoyed an inappropriate hump fest at the dog park. Last night, the boys ran around with three griffin terriers (they are really cute - they sort of resemble ancient Chinese men). Mop really took a shining to the female, and after some courting, proceeded to mount her. Well, I kept pulling him off, but she really didn't seem to mind.
Then Brooklyn wanted part of the action and joined in. By humping her head. I broke them apart.
Not seconds later, Mop was at it again. As he was happily humping terrier one, terrier two mounted Mr. Mop. Who was mounted by Brooklyn. That's right: four dogs in what seemed like a humpalooza at the dog park. I was laughing so hard that I couldn't really catch them (as they were running and humping) so the act went on for far too long.
Terrier three ate mud. Good choice terrier three.
Needless to say, both of my boys had to leave the park at that point and fell into a deep and happy sleep.
And fourthly (see I told you exciting!), Mop and Brooklyn spent time at a new park this morning with a husky named Tundra. A virgo should not own a white dog. Mr. Mop was immediately covered in mud, from wrestling with Tundra. I kept chasing him yelling 'stay out of the mud! stay out of the mud!'. The other dog owner looked at me like I was nuts. Whatever. He would do the same thing if he saw my groomer's bill.
The part that was exciting about this walk was the eagle that flew over our heads, by only a few metres, and landed in its nest. Panic much? All I could think of was that scene from 'The Proposal'. In case you haven't seen it, a puppy gets carried away by an eagle (don't worry, Sandra Bullock saves it). I also thought of that news report I heard when they cleared some nests from Kits beach and found them full of dog collars.
So now not only was I telling my one dog to stay out of the mud, but I was chasing my little dog for fear he would be whisked away for eagle breakfast. He thought this was a game, so ran away barking his horrible Yorkie bark. Drawing attention to his yummy fat self. I told him that this was very serious and that he had to listen to me. He pooped.
But this gave me time to catch him and make noises at the eagle to deter him from his next meal.
Tundra's owner definitely got his money's worth this morning.
Anyways, we are home safe. Fat, fluffy and safe. So much excitement that they are both lying flat on their backs, four legs in the air, snoring happily together.
And the Oscar Goes to . . . .
Last night was the biggest night of the year for Hollywood. The Oscars.
I can't decide if it's my dissipating dream to someday be at the Oscars or the fact that the Olympics overshadowed any Academy Award fever, but I felt quite lack luster this time round.
Since moving to Vancouver, I have had an Oscar party every single year. I always have some sort of theme, there is usually a poll & prizes, and most always there is plenty of wine and champagne. And every year, I actually watch the nominated films.
This year? I sat on my couch, with the boys and my homemade Thai green curry wearing Lululemon pants. And I saw only two of the nominated films. Make that one.
My lack of caring and non-enthusiasm does not mean I do not have judgements. I always have judgements.
Firstly, you know who I hate seeing on the Red Carpet? Miley Cyrus. OMG. Granted, I can't help but feel bitter towards a 17-year old trash bag with absolutely no acting chops and a horrific accent rolling down the carpet three times, when I have yet to go once. But on top of that, she has to present? AND OPEN HER MOUTH TO BEN MULRONEY? GAH!
I believe I guffawed when she told him how excited she was about her cameo role in the upcoming 'Sex and the City' movie. According to her, and her horrible accent, she has been a HUGE fan of the show for YEARS. Ummm, correct me if I am wrong in my math but if Miley is 17, and SATC started in 1998, then this annoying human was watching it at the age of five. She's been a huge fan of Carrie Bradshaw and blow jobs since she was five?
ICK.
At least give us teens like Amanda Seyfried who can at act (and sing), and is poised and sweet.
Secondly, I love Steve Martin, Alec Baldwin, Steve Carell and Tina Fey. They are just pretty much the best things at the Oscars (hmmm, three of them are on TV).
Except the dresses. The dresses this year were stunning. They were old-school Hollywood glamour. When I watched the awards as a young, impressionable youth (21) who believed I would be famous by 27 (cough) I would practice my speech in the shower with a shampoo bottle. Now? All I do is see how all those gorgeous gowns could work as a wedding dress.
Don't worry, I haven't given up on my dream. I am just more realistic. Like my fake-sort-of-stalking-bumping-into-at-the-Shake-Shack Tina Fey fantasy where we become friends and I write and then co-star in '30 Rock'. About as far fetched as me getting an Oscar?
Ummm yes.
Here's the thing about the Oscars: they are political. It's a really fancy sham, pat-on-your-back night that really has no merit to talent. I'm not saying the nominees aren't talented. They are. And even though Mo'nique said her award was not political (debatable), I now believe that a little gold man can't tell you how good you are. You can be a super amazing talented actor and never get an Oscar. Heck, you might not even get a chance to be on the box or silver screen.
I also now fully believe that it would be way more fun to go to the Golden Globes. They are cooler. There is free pour Moet, everyone is sitting at tables with each other, chatting, laughing, getting drunk. And the world of television and film collide.
I wish I had seen this year's movies. It would have made it more exciting I am sure. I wasn't rooting for anyone. But as soon as Sandra Bullock opened her mouth I knew she was a good choice. How can you not love this woman? And as cliche as it is to honour the other women in the category, I love how she did it! When she thanked her mom? Balling.
I also love that Carey Mulligan was wearing forks on her dress. You don't even know who she is yet. I do. I saw her on Broadway in The Seagull. We had no idea who she was when we watched it, but leaving the theatre, my friend (very picky theatre gal) and I raved about this unknown's performance. So present. So real. And now she's a moviestar and is like the next Kate Winslet.
John Hughes? Best tribute EVER. AAAAAAH! I had a VHS copy of Sixteen Candles that I would watch again and again. I vow to have a John Hughes party because now that I am not ten, I bet I will actually get the jokes.
Other than that, I was more interested in online shopping.
I won't lie: if I happen to end up at the Oscars someday I certainly won't be sad. And who knows? I might hit my career stride in my 40's. But as I get older and more realistic, I realize how fun it is not to care about the Oscars. Is this what normal, non-film people are like on a daily basis? They don't know someone who knows someone at the awards? They don't talk about the set all day? They don't compare what auditions they have been to in the last week?
Wow.
I sort of like it. It's so much easier.
I am sure that everyone likes watching for the best and worst dressed though, right? I always get a kick out of that. I have some friends, and my mother, who always criticize moviestars at the Oscars. I can't help but think: sure, their gown is ugly, but they are at the Oscars and we are sitting on our asses eating pizza. I feel we can't really judge.
I'll always love Hollywood, and the facade it puts on. It is fun to watch. And I think it would be fun to be a part of it. But then I remind myself, I sort of am. And it ain't so glamourous.
The red carpet sure looks soft though . . . .
The Dog Park Moviestar
It turns out Kristen Kreuk is my neighbour.
You don't know who she is? She's on that show 'Smallville'. I haven't ever watched it but I definitely know who she is. She was discovered in her teens and shot high into CW fame.
I saw her a few months back at the local nail salon. We bonded by laughing at a set of parents discussing their toddler's bowel movements. At first I pretended I didn't know who she was. But when someone asked, I blurted: "she's a moviestar!". Which made her blush.
Anyways, she walks her bulldog Dublin at the same dog park as my boys. This time I did not blurt out that she was a moviestar. I also tried my best not to stare at her.
Which is hard because she is (A) famous (B) the prettiest person I have ever seen in real life and (C) she was talking to me.
I felt bad not saying something about knowing who she was because I don't want to seem like one of those people who is too cool to be star struck. Will she be offended I don't recognize her?
Ummm, no. Hopefully she remembers our first encounter when I embarrassed her. And also, she clearly is not one of those 'Hello? I am like a star and you should worship me' sort of peoples. She is seriously so nice. So nice. And very sweet. And sort of goofy. You can always tell how nice a person is by how they are with their dog. She's pretty funny.
Although I was awkward, and trying to not look her in the face in case I yelled that she was on television, and talking about dog poop, I was really happy to bump into her. Sometimes in this business I forget why I am in it. For the most part, the people are not the nicest. Most are superficial. Most are so deep in the low self-esteem pool, they make up for it by acting like assholes. I'm not really cut out for the business of show business. So it was refreshing to meet someone who is actually successful (not that fake kind that Vancouver actors pull), and crazily modest and sweet.
It was also nice to meet someone who also has to constantly stop her dog from eating mud.
You don't know who she is? She's on that show 'Smallville'. I haven't ever watched it but I definitely know who she is. She was discovered in her teens and shot high into CW fame.
I saw her a few months back at the local nail salon. We bonded by laughing at a set of parents discussing their toddler's bowel movements. At first I pretended I didn't know who she was. But when someone asked, I blurted: "she's a moviestar!". Which made her blush.
Anyways, she walks her bulldog Dublin at the same dog park as my boys. This time I did not blurt out that she was a moviestar. I also tried my best not to stare at her.
Which is hard because she is (A) famous (B) the prettiest person I have ever seen in real life and (C) she was talking to me.
I felt bad not saying something about knowing who she was because I don't want to seem like one of those people who is too cool to be star struck. Will she be offended I don't recognize her?
Ummm, no. Hopefully she remembers our first encounter when I embarrassed her. And also, she clearly is not one of those 'Hello? I am like a star and you should worship me' sort of peoples. She is seriously so nice. So nice. And very sweet. And sort of goofy. You can always tell how nice a person is by how they are with their dog. She's pretty funny.
Although I was awkward, and trying to not look her in the face in case I yelled that she was on television, and talking about dog poop, I was really happy to bump into her. Sometimes in this business I forget why I am in it. For the most part, the people are not the nicest. Most are superficial. Most are so deep in the low self-esteem pool, they make up for it by acting like assholes. I'm not really cut out for the business of show business. So it was refreshing to meet someone who is actually successful (not that fake kind that Vancouver actors pull), and crazily modest and sweet.
It was also nice to meet someone who also has to constantly stop her dog from eating mud.
Spring Fever
The Engineer will say every season is my favourite. Which is sort of true. At the turn of each season, I have a minor freak out about how much that particular season is my favourite.
They are all super amazing - how can I pick? Fall smells good, with pumpkin pie and falling leaves. Winter is cozy and cuddly with mittens and mugs of hot chocolate. But it's only good until December 26th. Summer is the season we want to last the longest, with it's warm nights, days in the lake, and tans that make us all look hotter and thinner.
But there is something extra extra special about spring. No one loves spring more than a person from the prairies. Actually anyone who doesn't live in Vancouver.
We are spoiled here in Vancouver. Spring has arrived early this year! As you may have noticed with the 'Winter Olympics' that were more like 'Super Awesome Spring Olympics'. The blossoms did their magic spreading poufs of cotton candy throughout our already green city. In fact, they are almost gone, sadly. There are trees that are already fully green! It's March! Usually, the cotton candy goodness lasts until the end of April. At this rate, summer should arrive on May 1st. Even the bears are confused, they all have woken up from their winter slumber a month too early. Sheesh, they got fat for nothing!
Don't get me wrong: Vancouverites love their spring. Everyone has a happy bounce in their step. People are out walking, biking, jogging, etc. People are shopping in droves for brightly coloured dresses (read: Sarah) But for the most part, that happens in this city year round.
Coming from the prairies, and one of the coldest cities ANYWHERE, Winnipeg, I face spring with a whole different level of appreciation.
In Vancouver, we are pleased to see the early blossoms. The birds are chirping. Just the other day I walked home from the gym, practically skipping with glee. How could I not? My path was paved with the sprinkling of pink petals. (Clearly it's still sunny here because in the rain it's not so pleasant)
But when you live in a city that is literally in a deep freeze from mid-October (many a trick or treating did I do in snow banks) to mid-March/early April, spring is the to enlightenment (or dare I say the big
O?).
We think people are out more here? Ummm, nothing compares to the spring in Winnipeg when you suddenly remember you are not the only person in Southdale. People are out in droves. Even though there is still snow (albeit melting) and it's actually pretty ugly (melting snow, left over sand and piles of dog poop make for gross. Oh, and the grass is brown and dead. We don't have that here) EVERYONE goes out without their parkas celebrating the return of life.
There is a special spring smell that is unique to the prairies. I can't describe it except by telling you it's fresh and invigorating. And it's like heaven for our nose. It means that spring has really and truly arrived. And when you start hearing the birds again? Best sound EVER.
We get some of that on the west coast. And ours is clearly much prettier. But do we appreciate it as much? Well in our own special Vancouver way (I think it's fair to say that 4 months of gray is pretty crappy). That's okay. I am not prepared to trade in my snow-free existence for a deeper appreciation of spring. I appreciate it plenty.
I appreciate it so much it's time for a pedicure and some new shoes.
I really love spring.
They are all super amazing - how can I pick? Fall smells good, with pumpkin pie and falling leaves. Winter is cozy and cuddly with mittens and mugs of hot chocolate. But it's only good until December 26th. Summer is the season we want to last the longest, with it's warm nights, days in the lake, and tans that make us all look hotter and thinner.
But there is something extra extra special about spring. No one loves spring more than a person from the prairies. Actually anyone who doesn't live in Vancouver.
We are spoiled here in Vancouver. Spring has arrived early this year! As you may have noticed with the 'Winter Olympics' that were more like 'Super Awesome Spring Olympics'. The blossoms did their magic spreading poufs of cotton candy throughout our already green city. In fact, they are almost gone, sadly. There are trees that are already fully green! It's March! Usually, the cotton candy goodness lasts until the end of April. At this rate, summer should arrive on May 1st. Even the bears are confused, they all have woken up from their winter slumber a month too early. Sheesh, they got fat for nothing!
Don't get me wrong: Vancouverites love their spring. Everyone has a happy bounce in their step. People are out walking, biking, jogging, etc. People are shopping in droves for brightly coloured dresses (read: Sarah) But for the most part, that happens in this city year round.
Coming from the prairies, and one of the coldest cities ANYWHERE, Winnipeg, I face spring with a whole different level of appreciation.
In Vancouver, we are pleased to see the early blossoms. The birds are chirping. Just the other day I walked home from the gym, practically skipping with glee. How could I not? My path was paved with the sprinkling of pink petals. (Clearly it's still sunny here because in the rain it's not so pleasant)
But when you live in a city that is literally in a deep freeze from mid-October (many a trick or treating did I do in snow banks) to mid-March/early April, spring is the to enlightenment (or dare I say the big
O?).
We think people are out more here? Ummm, nothing compares to the spring in Winnipeg when you suddenly remember you are not the only person in Southdale. People are out in droves. Even though there is still snow (albeit melting) and it's actually pretty ugly (melting snow, left over sand and piles of dog poop make for gross. Oh, and the grass is brown and dead. We don't have that here) EVERYONE goes out without their parkas celebrating the return of life.
There is a special spring smell that is unique to the prairies. I can't describe it except by telling you it's fresh and invigorating. And it's like heaven for our nose. It means that spring has really and truly arrived. And when you start hearing the birds again? Best sound EVER.
We get some of that on the west coast. And ours is clearly much prettier. But do we appreciate it as much? Well in our own special Vancouver way (I think it's fair to say that 4 months of gray is pretty crappy). That's okay. I am not prepared to trade in my snow-free existence for a deeper appreciation of spring. I appreciate it plenty.
I appreciate it so much it's time for a pedicure and some new shoes.
I really love spring.
The Kindness of People of the Past
When I started this blog, it was mostly to practice my writing and was only read by my mother and two of my friends.
Slowly, but surely, and thanks to Facebook, many others started to read it (even though I have only 22 followers I swear I'm cool!), and now people I don't even know are reading it! So exciting!
Blogs are sort of funny. They are part journal, part magazine article, and 100% the ramblings of me. So when I get messages from people who I know, but am not BFF's with, or not know, who love my writing it makes me feel really happy inside.
I was in a sorority back in the days of university. Think what you will, but my sorority was full of high-achieving, clever, beautiful women. Not the bobble-headed, big-boobed blondes that are getting killed on Sorority Row. When I say beautiful, I really mean it. They are pretty much the best looking group of women in one room, besides the Oscars, I have ever seen. Unique and lovely. Anyways, a few of the girls who were much younger than me started reading my blog. And when some of them emailed to tell it, my heart actually melted. It made me so happy to hear that my ramblings were actually being enjoyed. So this is to thank them :)
Also, in the way that Facebook does, I have been reunited from the J.H. Bruns graduating class of 1997. The people I graduated with were also the people I went through elementary school with. Twelve formative years of one's life and I now only speak to three of those fellow Bruins grads. Weird right? Well, normal actually. It's fairly normal to leave high school behind, never looking back. Which is actually sad.
Thanks to Facebook, we get to stalk each other and see who has kids, who has a killer career, who got fat, who got skinny, or who went from being super-nerd to super-hot. I like it.
So when I got a package in the mail from a girl who I have known since I had my natural hair colour (I don't remember what it was, do you C?) and before braces, I realized the magic of the blog and Facebook.
This fellow virgo, Coronation Street lover and wedding freak who I haven't spoken to since 1997, was inspired enough to design a necklace off my ring (complete with 8 beads representing how many times I've been a bridesmaid!) along with a whole slew of other jewel treats and send them to me! When I opened the package I actually had goosebumps and that super happy feeling inside.
I skyped the Engineer to open my parcels with him and then before reading the card, had to clean my house and shower. Because I am a virgo freak and when sitting down to appreciate something pretty, must be clean and pretty myself.
Anyways, this friend, who is an engineer by day, designs a Stellar line of jewellery by night. Check her out! I actually just opened yet another part of the parcel I hadn't noticed - it just keeps going!
It made me cry a little. People are so kind and thoughtful, and working in the business that I do, it's easy to forget that. So thank's for the reminder C!
I have an Olympic memory about this girl, which is sort of freaky how I can even retain this information. Anyhoo, I was at her birthday party circa 1988 when Ben Johnson won a medal (I forget which one) for running (in a city I can't remember). It must have been around September 12th? Dear God, how can I even remember that? When he was found to have taken drugs, it broke all our little 9-year old hearts. I think we all cried.
That is neither here nor there, the point of this entry is to thank all those FB friends who read my blog and smile with me (or at me, it's okay). I really truly appreciate it.
Slowly, but surely, and thanks to Facebook, many others started to read it (even though I have only 22 followers I swear I'm cool!), and now people I don't even know are reading it! So exciting!
Blogs are sort of funny. They are part journal, part magazine article, and 100% the ramblings of me. So when I get messages from people who I know, but am not BFF's with, or not know, who love my writing it makes me feel really happy inside.
I was in a sorority back in the days of university. Think what you will, but my sorority was full of high-achieving, clever, beautiful women. Not the bobble-headed, big-boobed blondes that are getting killed on Sorority Row. When I say beautiful, I really mean it. They are pretty much the best looking group of women in one room, besides the Oscars, I have ever seen. Unique and lovely. Anyways, a few of the girls who were much younger than me started reading my blog. And when some of them emailed to tell it, my heart actually melted. It made me so happy to hear that my ramblings were actually being enjoyed. So this is to thank them :)
Also, in the way that Facebook does, I have been reunited from the J.H. Bruns graduating class of 1997. The people I graduated with were also the people I went through elementary school with. Twelve formative years of one's life and I now only speak to three of those fellow Bruins grads. Weird right? Well, normal actually. It's fairly normal to leave high school behind, never looking back. Which is actually sad.
Thanks to Facebook, we get to stalk each other and see who has kids, who has a killer career, who got fat, who got skinny, or who went from being super-nerd to super-hot. I like it.
So when I got a package in the mail from a girl who I have known since I had my natural hair colour (I don't remember what it was, do you C?) and before braces, I realized the magic of the blog and Facebook.
This fellow virgo, Coronation Street lover and wedding freak who I haven't spoken to since 1997, was inspired enough to design a necklace off my ring (complete with 8 beads representing how many times I've been a bridesmaid!) along with a whole slew of other jewel treats and send them to me! When I opened the package I actually had goosebumps and that super happy feeling inside.
I skyped the Engineer to open my parcels with him and then before reading the card, had to clean my house and shower. Because I am a virgo freak and when sitting down to appreciate something pretty, must be clean and pretty myself.
Anyways, this friend, who is an engineer by day, designs a Stellar line of jewellery by night. Check her out! I actually just opened yet another part of the parcel I hadn't noticed - it just keeps going!
It made me cry a little. People are so kind and thoughtful, and working in the business that I do, it's easy to forget that. So thank's for the reminder C!
I have an Olympic memory about this girl, which is sort of freaky how I can even retain this information. Anyhoo, I was at her birthday party circa 1988 when Ben Johnson won a medal (I forget which one) for running (in a city I can't remember). It must have been around September 12th? Dear God, how can I even remember that? When he was found to have taken drugs, it broke all our little 9-year old hearts. I think we all cried.
That is neither here nor there, the point of this entry is to thank all those FB friends who read my blog and smile with me (or at me, it's okay). I really truly appreciate it.
Bloganalysis : the meaning of life?
"A blog is usually maintained by an individual with regular entries of commentary, descriptions of events, or other material such as graphics or video. Many blogs provide commentary or news on a particular subject; others function as more personal online diaries. A typical blog combines text, images, and links to other blogs, web pages, and other media related to its topic. The ability of readers to leave comments in an interactive format is an important part of many blogs." (Wikipedia)
So what motivates a Blogger? Amid the inevitable suggestions of "having too much time on your hands" and "because you're a geek" , the art of blogging takes many different directions, and can reveal much about the author - both good and bad.
Unlike a conventional website, your Blog will immediately broadcast your writing to your select audience (your followers) with the potential to reach a much wider audience in the shape of those who follow other Blogs - especially those who have kindly provided links to your own blog. Your followers will start out as people you know - be they family or friends, work colleagues or business acquaintances. Then suddenly you find complete strangers declaring themselves as your followers - and when you take a look at their blog, you can sometimes (though not always...) make a connection.
Your generic Blogger probably subscribes to social networking sites too - but maybe started to realise that Facebook has been taken over by fantasy farmers and Twitter just doesn't allow you the space to say everything you need to say in 140 characters. Where Twitter excels, though, is the potential to entice a much wider group of followers (those of your choice and of theirs) to taste a morsel of your news before being drawn to a link taking them, wisely or unwisely, to the heart of your Blog. Twitter, in particular, has increasingly become a promotional medium for business - a quick hit on their customer base, and an efficient method of checking what other businesses are up to. Bakers to Bankers, they're all inviting us to follow them on Twitter - and then suddenly you realise that there aren't enough hours in the day to read everyone's tweets!
By comparison, Blogging remains much less pressurised. You can blog once a day (or more), once a week, once a month - or whenever. Half the joy of blogging is taking time out - just to read what others have been up to, marvel at their photographic prowess or catch up on their recent travels. No matter how long it's been since you last visited your Blog, your invitation into someone else's world is still there - minus the mystery eggs and lost black sheep - and uncluttered by several hundred retweets from people whom you neither know nor care about.
You may still come to the conclusion that your fellow bloggers have too much time on their hands, or that they are simply geeks. But you may also learn something new - and something of genuine interest to you. You find yourself waiting for their next blog - just to see what they've been up to, where they've been or who they've met.
Then you start to wonder what other people really think of your Blog? Are they really interested in what book you're reading, your latest DIY project, or what your kids are up to? In most cases the answer is probably not - but what the heck - you enjoyed writing about it; someone, somewhere, probably wanted to read it, and as for everyone else? Do we really care?
A Blog is what you want it to be. Period.
By comparison, Blogging remains much less pressurised. You can blog once a day (or more), once a week, once a month - or whenever. Half the joy of blogging is taking time out - just to read what others have been up to, marvel at their photographic prowess or catch up on their recent travels. No matter how long it's been since you last visited your Blog, your invitation into someone else's world is still there - minus the mystery eggs and lost black sheep - and uncluttered by several hundred retweets from people whom you neither know nor care about.
You may still come to the conclusion that your fellow bloggers have too much time on their hands, or that they are simply geeks. But you may also learn something new - and something of genuine interest to you. You find yourself waiting for their next blog - just to see what they've been up to, where they've been or who they've met.
Then you start to wonder what other people really think of your Blog? Are they really interested in what book you're reading, your latest DIY project, or what your kids are up to? In most cases the answer is probably not - but what the heck - you enjoyed writing about it; someone, somewhere, probably wanted to read it, and as for everyone else? Do we really care?
A Blog is what you want it to be. Period.
Destination Bride Part Six: Nantucket
The Olympics have left us and now I am back to reality.
Luckily my reality is planning a wedding! MUHAHAHAHAHA!!
I last left us on the blue and white island of Santorini. Now it's time for us to head to another island, just off the shores of Cape Cod, Massachusetts: Nantucket.
For some reason, I always had a desire to visit Cape Cod. Perhaps it was due to my obsession with the Kennedy's. Or my love of the clam bake and peddle pushers (note here: I have never ever attended a clam bake wearing, or not wearing, peddle pushers). It could also be linked to my preppy nature of wanting to wear Lilly Pulitzer dresses while scooting around on a cruiser bike and sipping lemonade.
Because in my head, that is what Cape Cod is.
I'm pretty much right on the money.
My desire to go to Nantucket comes from out of the blue. I always knew it existed. I always knew I wanted to go. When I told a friend I was going, his reply was "if you were a place, Nantucket would be it".
How right he was. I love love love Nantucket. The moment the Engineer stepped on the island, he too love love loved Nantucket.
It's pretty magical. And heaven for prepster virgos. It's all clean, neat, orderly, and it MATCHES! The whole island is a palette of greys, whites, blues, greens and the odd dot of pink. I did wear a Lilly dress. I did ride a cruiser bicycle. I did not have lemonade, but I did vow to return again and again and again.
Therefore, I couldn't help but scope the place out for a wedding.
I won't lie, it's up there in the top three right now.
Our venue of choice is Wade Cottages. A cluster of grey homes overlooking the sea in 'Sconset, the most easterly point of the island.
'Sconset has been described like this:
"Here in 'Sconset, between the cranberry bogs and the rose-grown bluffs, is one of the most beguiling villages in the world."
It's true. It is beguiling. The Engineer and I had the loveliest time here.
The Wade Cottages are great, because they can hold 40 of our nearest and dearest with other accommodation nearby. We can stay for a week. Frolicking in the warm sea, basking in the sun, skipping through the sand dunes. Adirondack chairs overlook the ocean, a perfect perch for sipping wine and reading books. Watching the sunset over the island while cooking lobster on the beach.
Our wedding would be a complete garden party, lasting well into the night. Lanterns above our heads, dancing in our barefeet, watching the stars from the beach in the wee hours of the morning.
Oh crap. I just talked myself back into this wedding.
Bad points: it's hard to get to from the West Coast of Canada. The ferry to drive over, return, is $400. Ummm, that's about it. Everything else is perfect.
Luckily my reality is planning a wedding! MUHAHAHAHAHA!!
I last left us on the blue and white island of Santorini. Now it's time for us to head to another island, just off the shores of Cape Cod, Massachusetts: Nantucket.
For some reason, I always had a desire to visit Cape Cod. Perhaps it was due to my obsession with the Kennedy's. Or my love of the clam bake and peddle pushers (note here: I have never ever attended a clam bake wearing, or not wearing, peddle pushers). It could also be linked to my preppy nature of wanting to wear Lilly Pulitzer dresses while scooting around on a cruiser bike and sipping lemonade.
Because in my head, that is what Cape Cod is.
I'm pretty much right on the money.
My desire to go to Nantucket comes from out of the blue. I always knew it existed. I always knew I wanted to go. When I told a friend I was going, his reply was "if you were a place, Nantucket would be it".
How right he was. I love love love Nantucket. The moment the Engineer stepped on the island, he too love love loved Nantucket.
It's pretty magical. And heaven for prepster virgos. It's all clean, neat, orderly, and it MATCHES! The whole island is a palette of greys, whites, blues, greens and the odd dot of pink. I did wear a Lilly dress. I did ride a cruiser bicycle. I did not have lemonade, but I did vow to return again and again and again.
Therefore, I couldn't help but scope the place out for a wedding.
I won't lie, it's up there in the top three right now.
Our venue of choice is Wade Cottages. A cluster of grey homes overlooking the sea in 'Sconset, the most easterly point of the island.
'Sconset has been described like this:
"Here in 'Sconset, between the cranberry bogs and the rose-grown bluffs, is one of the most beguiling villages in the world."
It's true. It is beguiling. The Engineer and I had the loveliest time here.
The Wade Cottages are great, because they can hold 40 of our nearest and dearest with other accommodation nearby. We can stay for a week. Frolicking in the warm sea, basking in the sun, skipping through the sand dunes. Adirondack chairs overlook the ocean, a perfect perch for sipping wine and reading books. Watching the sunset over the island while cooking lobster on the beach.
Our wedding would be a complete garden party, lasting well into the night. Lanterns above our heads, dancing in our barefeet, watching the stars from the beach in the wee hours of the morning.
Oh crap. I just talked myself back into this wedding.
Bad points: it's hard to get to from the West Coast of Canada. The ferry to drive over, return, is $400. Ummm, that's about it. Everything else is perfect.
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